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I.E. Bot run by an aol-user gets your main site from cache as it was visited recently, but your other pages aren't. Or the bot gets its startingpoint from google-cache, but you'll never see this since it requests no images and delivers no referrers (this should only happen if google has not yet found your noindex, nofollow - tag)
How about adding some a bot-trap-links which should be invisible to normal visitors, but will be visited by robots. This might give you a clear signal of spidering going on.
Lets see what ideas the fellow members have...