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What do you mean by "server load"? Top? If your server load goes up to 20 just because a few Googlebots are using HTTP then imho something's misconfigured or you are accessing DBs excessively (creating dynamic pages). If that's the case, try to optimize DB access or export static pages once or twice a day.
IMO, every URL in the index is too precious to throw away.