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If you had the chance to start over, what would you do or be?

or in other words, any regrets?

         

snowman

7:55 pm on Apr 6, 2003 (gmt 0)

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Me: I'd choose to be a traveling musician, living on the road, depending on human kindness, visiting towns, villages and hamlets throughout Canada and the far north, taking life one day at a time, playing, meeting and learning about people, how they live and survive, and in general sharing life's experiences.

Laisha

8:13 pm on Apr 6, 2003 (gmt 0)

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A tall, slender multi-million dollar lottery winner.

WebRookie

8:41 pm on Apr 6, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I don't think I'd change my life much at all, the last ten years have been the best in my life. Lived my Theatre dream and have gone forward in everything else I've wanted to do, including SEM. The only difference I would make in my life is to have studied at college longer and chosen a different major.

hannamyluv

12:44 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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Jeez, I didn't think life was over until you were dead. I'll let you know after I'm dead what I missed out on.

Plans for the future though... Sail the Caribbean, go to screenwriting school, see India on foot and live on a house boat. Not necessarily in that order nor in the next year or so.

I certainly can't regret what I've done so far and until it is too late to change what I do, I certainly can't complain about what I haven’t done.

Mike12345

1:04 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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Regret: I should have worked harder at school, and not been so out of it, playing computer games all day and getting wrecked on a night.

Ambition: to be able to string a sentence together that actually makes sense.

Alternative Future

1:17 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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A coalman! How the simple things in life appeal ;)

-gs

bcolflesh

1:44 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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If I got to start over, I'd like to retain my current memory, so I knew exactly who to kill.

Regards,
Brent

Rhadamanthus

4:13 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I only wish I had more time. Never seems to be enough to do everything I want to do, although that doesn't stop me from trying.

Made In Sheffield

4:59 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I would have spent longer enjoying my youth before this annoying responsibility thing came along. Still trying to figure out what caused it.......

mivox

5:49 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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Maybe going to law school after undergrad, instead of getting married and spending the next 4 years doing not much of anything. Then again, maybe not... since I'm pretty happy where I am now, and if I changed something major like that who's to say where I'd be today?

There are definitely a few things I wouldn't do again though, that I'm pretty sure wouldn't change anything except giving me the absence of memories that still make me cringe 5-10 years later... hehehe.

Hawkgirl

9:01 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I am starting over, in a sense. Going back to school again for another Master's degree in a totally different subject area than I've ever studied.

Totally new career on the horizon.

Who knows how long I'll stick with this one ... maybe another 10 years or so ... then onto the next thing. :)

cfx211

9:11 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I've started over several times already and plan on doing it several more times. In terms of regrets, I would have started having fun earlier in life and not been so afraid of things as a teenager.

lawman

9:33 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I've already had one mid-life crisis. Not sure if I'm allowed another.

lawman

Liane

9:42 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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A tall, slender multi-million dollar lottery winner who owns a self sufficient island in the Caribbean with a lovely (small) two bedroom house, a private staff for cooking and cleaning and (of course) several yachts. Oh ... and married to the most clever, exciting, handsome and caring man in the world! :)

NeedScripts

9:48 pm on Apr 7, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I would not change a even one second of my life, not even for a million or billion dollars. :)

Life is so imperfect that I just love it.

miles

10:28 pm on Apr 8, 2003 (gmt 0)

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It would be a waste of time to sit and contenplate the what ifs and only ifs. The things that have come about in your life were suposed to happen the way they did to make you who you are. There aint no changing it. There are things that I wish I never did, but thats the way it goes. Hind site 20/20 everything happened and I am content with the current out come.

I have a wonderful girlfriend. A job to provide for all my needs. A family that cares for me and I for them. But most of all I have a purpose in life. If you want to know what that is sticky me. But all in all everything happened the way it did to make me who I am, the things that you have gone through make you who you are. You start out life not knowing anything and you leave the world knowing a little more than when you got here. So be content.

willybfriendly

10:55 pm on Apr 8, 2003 (gmt 0)

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While it might sound like a cliche, Confucious said, "Find a job that you love and you will never have to work a day in your life."

Guess I've been blessed. There's been some hard times, but I wouldn't change a thing. And, it only seems to get better.

WBF

copongcopong

12:49 am on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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taken Computer Science course or any computer related field during college.

mahlon

1:17 am on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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"So you wanna be a frogman?" I did!

I would have definitely gone into SEAL training to be a Navy frogman! I have always been interested in climbing, swimming, running, scuba & rebreathers, shooting, sneaking around and like loud sounds & things. There is a former SEAL in the family and I was very close to going in but I did not. I kick myself everyday! So now I am a SEAL historian of sorts, in my spare time I collect gear and old UDT things. I also go to the reunions and meet the old frogs. I met Jessie Ventura and Rudy, very nice guys!

[edited by: mahlon at 1:19 am (utc) on April 9, 2003]

Macguru

1:17 am on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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>>If you had the chance to start over

I would just pick the same life, with a few 'ctrl z' here and there.

My dream life is to be the inventor of the time travelling machine.

Future life on earth could be sustainable then.

Eric_Jarvis

6:10 am on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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any regrets?...not a chance...have I learned some lessons the hard way?...damn right I have...hence no regrets

Jakpot

9:02 am on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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Born 20 years later

rcjordan

12:11 pm on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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>If you had the chance to start over, what would you do

Buy more domains.

Alternative Future

12:18 pm on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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But this time get in a little earlier with the purchase of domains eh? ;-)

-gs

WibbleWobble

3:52 pm on Apr 9, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I would have started having fun earlier in life and not been so afraid of things as a teenager.
So you were afraid of spiders, too?

:)

Hawkgirl

4:06 am on Apr 10, 2003 (gmt 0)

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> Buy more domains.

rc, the iced tea I was drinking when I read this is now all over my desk. Thanks for making me snarf!

dvduval

4:25 am on Apr 10, 2003 (gmt 0)

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I'm not even halfway to my projected termination date. I'll be starting over and doing something new at least 4 more times before then, probably more.

Some things I've yet to do:
1) Buy a one-way ticket around the World.
2) Live somewhere far North like Newfoundland for a year.
3) Do something really thoughtful like help build houses for the poor in Costa Rica.
4) Hike up to at least Base Camp one of Mount Everest.

Liane

6:05 am on Apr 10, 2003 (gmt 0)

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At a certain age, many of us have several regrets. My only "major" regret is that I didn't buy MacIntosh/Apple stocks when I had the chance and the means to make a killing!

At the time, we had 16 computer terminals in our office, a Basic 4, mini computer (which actually had a state of the art "word processor" ) and a telex machine we used to bang away at to send month end sales reports to our head office in Luxembourg.

Note: I was very proud of the fact that I was the only one in the office who could actually write a "basic" programme which would produce a meaningful sales report! I also learned Fortran ... not that it did me much good! ;) This notation is likely Greek to many of you, but both "Basic" and "Fortran" were computer languages ... way back when!

A colleague of mine (financial director at our head office) told me about these new "home/personal computers" which a company called "MacIntosh" was about to produce on a wide scale and I was offered shares at a ridiculously low price. At the same time, he told me about these new fangled laser printers which would make the line printer obsolete.

I could not forsee any future in people having computers at home! The concept perplexed me to the extreme. Why on earth would anyone want to have a computer at home ... and what could one possibly use it for? (This was prior to the advent of e:mail!)

Disgusted, my colleague told me that "I had no vision". He proceeded to put literally everything he had into MacIntosh stocks. Unfortunately, he was fatally injured in a very grizzly car accident on the German autobahn which left him brain dead shortly thereafter. He left a very, very wealthy wife and two young children!

Since he was a bean counter (and very serious type of guy with little humour) ... I know he would have been very proud of the return on his investment and would have taken great delight in saying, "I told you so!" :)

Go2

10:06 pm on Apr 10, 2003 (gmt 0)

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It's not too late. Saying that only means that you are too comfortable to put in the effort required to achieve your goals.

I went skiing a few weeks ago and I was amazed at how many 60 year olds there were in our group. They were all good skiers and had no problem in keeping up with the rest of us. When chatting with them I learned that they were successful businessmen, academic scholars, farmers, bus drivers, you name it. The only thing these gentlemen had in common was the attitude that "it is never too late to do what you want to do". To me this showed that there is a world of opportunities out there, regardless of how old you are.

Cheers.

pmac

10:11 pm on Apr 10, 2003 (gmt 0)

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>with a few 'ctrl z' here and there<

For sure......I would throw in a few "alt z" as well.

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