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I hope this is of some comfort.
I think the increase in visitors to the other site is because of this. A chunk of SERPs where your first site used to appear now show the new site's pages, in my opinion...
I see grandfathered sites in my area with huge KWD and if you optimised to match them you'd be flushed instantly.
Just my opinion