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Your best defence against this is to build good quality inward links and let the competition waste their time building you cheap, value-less links ;-)
Now i have 5 sites about widgets. They are linked like this: site 1 -> site 2 -> site 3 -> site 4 -> site 5 . This sites all have the same theme. I'm thinking about adding 5 more sites and linking them with the first 5 to make theme for this sites stronger. Will this work?
On the original question, I do not think that Google are that silly that they would allow this sort of thing to influence it. I am sure that if they are using 'themeing' the algorithm should be able to detect this sort of thing (at least I hope it does!) eg maybe they could only use the top 100 or so ranked sites for a keyword to use in the "themeing" part of the algorithm (assuming they are actually using themeing) - that way all the guestbooks and blogs will not be counted toward the theme calculation/score, as we could assume they are not in the top 100 ... all speculation on my part, so DON't quote me.
How can i recover from that? I'm in very competitive field, top sites now have strong network of links. There are 5 sites wich dominates the serps.
As to regaining your theme, some on-topic incomings will of course help, as would some on-topic outgoings from inner pages, but I somehow doubt theme dilution was the cause of your fall in the SERPs....