How do I stop an FLV file autoplaying?

[magon]

We have playing with the idea of using video on some sites but we do not want them to autoplay, I have used the following code:

<object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" codebase="http://fpdownload.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=7,0,0,0" width="320" height="240" align="middle">
<param name="allowScriptAccess" value="sameDomain" />
<param name="FlashVars" value="video=thomas_sanderson_sample2.flv&title=Thomas Sanderson">
<param name="movie" value="myersplayer.swf" />
<param name="quality" value="high" />
<param name="bgcolor" value="#ffffff" />
<param name="autoplay" value="0">
<embed src="myersplayer.swf" width="320" height="240" align="middle" flashvars="video=thomas_sanderson_sample2.flv&title=Thomas Sanderson" quality="high" autoplay="0" bgcolor="#ffffff" allowscriptaccess="sameDomain" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" pluginspage="http://www.macromedia.com/go/getflashplayer" />
</object>

I have tried <param name="autoplay" value="false0"> and that does not seem to work either.

Any ideas, thanks