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How do they affect your work schedule

         

Gomez

9:08 pm on Nov 17, 2005 (gmt 0)

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My wife is expecting our first kiddie in a couple of months. WooHoo!Well, my office happens to be in the room next to the baby room. How you those of you who work from home & have (or had) a newborn continue to get things done & be productive? Earplugs? Laptop with a wireless connection? etc? Any tips or anecdotes welcome. I am trying to prepare as best as possible.

Leosghost

9:13 pm on Nov 17, 2005 (gmt 0)

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Sticky martinibuster ;)..

DamonHD

9:42 pm on Nov 17, 2005 (gmt 0)

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Hi,

Our first is due Dec 8th, and my office is also next to the baby's room, but I have a bank of servers behind me to take the edge off the noise! B^>

Rgds

Damon

PS. I also have WiFi and a baby sling (each sold separately, batteries not included, YMMV, etc) so that I can either get as far away as possible or as close as possible to overcome the baby comfort/noise equivalent of ad-blindness I hope!

jecasc

10:51 pm on Nov 17, 2005 (gmt 0)

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The noise is no problem at all you will get used to it and won't even notice it after some time.

What you will need most is a key. Lock the door behind you and pretend not to be there. Otherwise your productivity will rapidly decline.

(Your problem will be the mother, not the baby.)

grandpa

3:40 am on Nov 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

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It's been a while since I had a newborn around the house... I remember the great times however. Learn to juggle a baby and bottle in one arm, and a mouse and keypad with the other. When your child is a little older you can get one of those little swings and set it near your desk. My little one was always happy with that situation, as was I. We could smile at each other all day...

Your production may drop a little, but everything you put into being a parent will more than offset that.

bill

5:15 am on Nov 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

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babies excrete various liquid substances at inopportune moments. The best advice is not to mix baby with electronics.

giggle

7:39 am on Nov 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

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I work from home also. I don't think newborn babies are a problem (if I remember correctly). Up until about 10 months old mine didn't make too much noise at all. Now they are 2.5 and 4 and run around the house playing all day, which can be a bit of a pain. But, kids will be kids so I let them go for it *most* of the time.

I think that you've got at least a year when your baby starts walking around until they make much of a difference (although my daughter Amy started walking a 9.5 months).

Good luck.

hannamyluv

3:47 pm on Nov 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

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I would recoomend a baby sling. Little ones love them (especially to sleep in them which is what you are aiming for when they are tiny) and it leaves both your hands free to work.

I didn't work from home when mine were little babies, but my husband stayed home with them. He would play video games for hours while the baby slept in the sling he was wearing.

It will help with the mom thing too as most new moms need some serious support at that time due to lack of sleep and lonliness. You can work and watch the baby while mom can sleep or get some me time. You look like a hero and mom/wife is a much happier woman.

justdave

4:03 pm on Nov 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

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I've got a 2 year old and a 6-month old at home, and I do some work from home. The 2 year old is much more of a problem than the baby. Generally, an infant will be quiet and content as long as it can see/hear you. 2-year olds, on the other hand, MUST GET INTO EVERYTHING. You've got nothing to worry about for at least 8-9 months (once they start crawling is when it becomes problematic. Best advice was already given. Don't mix baby/toddler with electronics.

Gomez

6:04 pm on Nov 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

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Thanks everyone, those are great tips!

iamlost

6:41 pm on Nov 18, 2005 (gmt 0)

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* A baby sling is absolutely essential.

* Get an old system set up for when s/he becomes two-ish and wants to "do along with you". Mine learned their alphabet via DOS - the magic invocations that brought up the ancient games kept them enthralled for hours. Best use for DOS I ever found. Both went to kindergarten knowing numbers, alphabet, spelling, typing, and more about computers than their teachers.

* A baby/child will also give you great "child break" excuses that will energise your work once you sit down again. I highly recommend a child to the "work from home" webmaster.

Congratulations and best wishes to all you youngsters with young ones. I truly miss those days.

gpilling

12:56 pm on Nov 21, 2005 (gmt 0)

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My 2 year old son has a fascination with keyboards, since he sees my wife and I working on our laptops at home all the time. He insists on "helping" type at the most innopportune moments. Even the hypnotic pull of Elmo won't keep him away if I am at my computer. We generally just open a word doc and let him type away for a while until he gets bored. But I do like that DOS idea... maybe I will set up an old PC for him to play with.

graeme_p

5:49 pm on Nov 22, 2005 (gmt 0)

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New borns are not a problem apart form the lost sleep. Its when they get mobile that it becomes difficult.

My daughter started tapping away at a keyboard when she was two: at that stage she did not care if it was connected to a computer or not, so she got given an old one to play with.

Now she is a few days wasy from three. For the last few months she has been able to login (she has her own login to keep her away from my files), and can start the programs she uses (the Konqueror file manager in photo browsing mode, the Kolourpaint paint program and two games).

If she joins me when I am working, I have an old PC connected up as an X-terminal so she can login without disturbing me too much (except I have to keep doing Google image searches for her because she can not spell "Snow White" or "Cinderella" yet).

bunltd

6:12 pm on Nov 22, 2005 (gmt 0)

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I've worked from home through 2 babies... Except, I'm the mom, so you won't have to deal with it from the nursing perspective. Talk about seriously affecting your productivity work-wise. ;)

Be ready for a schedule that's not a schedule for at least a few weeks, could be much longer. Your little one won't have any sense of time, day/night or anything else you depend on to keep you on track... and you will be sleep deprived. We found that after 6 weeks or so, our kids kind of fell into a routine that resembled a schedule, which we then cultivated. It evolved into regular naps and meals which made a big difference.

A sling is a great thing, especially when they're tiny and snuggly. We also used a portable bassinet that could be easily moved around. A baby monitor is also good, so baby can stay in their room, and you can hear if they need you... Since this is your first, you might not be ready to do that for a while. :)

hannamyluv's advice is very good.

Bottom-line, you can do it, but don't expect things to be the same, they won't. Congrats!

off to fix lunch for mine - they're 8 and 3 now...

LisaB