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Apache has been extremely helpful in the development of the Internet, but it's now facing its too old architecture/conception, you should consider switching to more modern web servers, like Nginx, LiteSpeed, Caddy, etc...
I did consider nginx recently but it's a learning curve I have no time for.
Apache is not dead, and still in second position world-wide on public facing websites. With Nginx often just used as a proxy-server/load-balancer for heavy sites offloading the traffic to more versatile back-end servers, the percentage of active Apache servers may well be higher. I feel Apache is still a safe bet to serve sites in 2021.
I doubt the choice of server will make much difference to dynamic pages.
Properly built, a multi-tasking Golang web-application blows away every single-threaded scripted application running on a LAMP stack (where the P in LAMP is either PHP, Perl or Python)
A lot websites load a lot of static assets: front end frameworks, and fonts , analytics scripts etc. and those dominate loading time anyway.