I have a member who is claiming an abusive ex partner is harassing her via my website.
This has been going on for some time (many months) with both the alleged victim and perpetrator seemingly having numerous accounts or associated accounts ('friends').
I have at numerous times recommended they block the offending user and went on to recommend they leave the website to avoid these problems, but still it continues and for reasons I cannot fathom they won't leave.
I have also had an email seemingly from the police in Australia about this matter.
I am somewhat dubious, rightly or wrongly about this whole thing as I've had attention seekers doing odd things in the past and trying to get me involved in their games.
However, some of my moderators are getting drawn into this and I feel it's causing a distraction. Any tips to end this kind of nonsense?
Also, if indeed this was true; under what circumstances, if any, would I be obligated to release information about a user (IP address etc.) and to whom would it be acceptable to release it to?