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I would also give the owner another shot. I don't usually include any links or logos for myself either, but would be mighty disappointed if an owner didn't recommend my services if asked. Just be clear that you are not a potential competitor and that you don't want to 'rip' the site - just that you like the quality of the work.
You might try calling. Luck into the right person and they may just tell you straight out that it was ABC Designs.
Push come to shove you'll just have to hire somebody to knock it off:)) Change the backgrounds, clean up the code, move a few elements around - even the original designer might never recognize the inspiration.