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present it as such, stay with the garbage host and have issues, or move to sombody that will fill your needs and leave the problems behind.
The choice is pretty obvious if they care even 1% about their site. The cost should be a second thought, to the need to move away.
best of luck!
What is the relationship that the burden should be shared?
Sounds like a big time catch up situation, and that that this should already be done or well in the works. Taking the lead and demonstrating command of the situation is a big plus for you.
Have a tangentially similar situation with a client myself. Doing high six figure business on $100 a year server. Every few months the email servers are down, or the site is down, security breach, or who knows what. Springing for the cost of what is needed versus expectations are way out of sync; so have not had much choice but to let the situation simmer. Nothing will happen until there there is a catastrophic failure, and just don't have much choice but to stay out of the way until that time. Sad thing is that enough sales/money and time/energy has been lost 'here and there' to have already paid for a top-tier setup a year or two in advance.