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Helping the linking clueless

Do you do it?

         

graywolf

11:01 pm on Aug 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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When I get bad link requests I usually just delete them, but I got one today that was sorely ineed of help.

Please link back to my site in the next 5 hours or your link will be deleted

I couldn't just let it go. I gave him links to a few threads here and hope he reads them. So have any of you ever helped out the truly clueless or do you just delete them?

chrisnrae

11:03 pm on Aug 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Delete, delete, delete - unless I know them.

grandpa

11:38 pm on Aug 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I would have asked if he already had the check in the mail. Someone that concerned how I spend the next 5 hours better be willing to pay for that time!

What else can I say... delete the message, let him delete the (most likely worthless) link, and keep searching for quality on-topic links yourself. Oh, and remember to be nice when you ask.

deejay

11:45 pm on Aug 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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*laughing* That is absolutely priceless! He'd have had a fat chance with me - most folks have no idea I'm on the opposite side of the world from them, and I sure as hell ain't getting up at 3 am to reciprocate a link.

Truth be told, I'm having trouble getting back within a month lately - but that's another story.

To the question - I help very occasionally when I'm launching a new site and I see promise in the requesting site. If it's a useless site, or my site is well established, then no.

NB - it's not that I 'don't need' their link on an established site - it's just that the number of requests by that stage make it impractical.

PatrickDeese

11:57 pm on Aug 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Once I got an email from someone using one of the link exchange services that had been recently penalized - so I said something link "Ya know... you probably shouldn't be using XYZ link ex service as you run the risk of getting your site penalized."

So the webmaster writes back - "are you going to link or not?".

:P

sit2510

5:19 am on Aug 11, 2004 (gmt 0)

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>>> Please link back to my site in the next 5 hours or your link will be deleted

I would consider that this type of e-mail is very rude. Why would you allow someone to put such a pressure?

Me too, DELETE!

sit2510

5:32 am on Aug 11, 2004 (gmt 0)

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>>> So have any of you ever helped out the truly clueless or do you just delete them?

Yes, sometimes in early days...but experience taught me that most of the time it is better to remain silent. Also depend upon the mood at that time.

pmkpmk

8:16 am on Aug 11, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I would agree to sit2510 - even though my personality structure forces me to think completely different.

My last samaritarian action was when I was approached by "journalists" from a student magazine for free tickets to an important tradeshow. We get those free-tickets-requests a lot, but since I worked for a student magazine myself many years ago, I took pity with them.

I explained that there was a perfectly legal way to get free tickets for student magazines - that you even get accredited as full fledged journalist with access to the press centre etc, and I described what they need to do and even whom to contact. I told them that I did the very same when I was in college and wished them good luck.

What I got back was a one-liner "We asked for tickets - not for a lecture".

nuevojefe

9:32 am on Aug 11, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Had to have been the same person that emailed about 3 of our sites today. (cute background right?)

I got annoyed and said "please remove our link" but I am often VERY helpful in explaining linking strategy, etc to people who are clearly lost.

I respect the misguided but not the rude.

trillianjedi

9:38 am on Aug 11, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Yeah I would do the same - write and demand that they remove my link within the next hour.

TJ

nuevojefe

7:46 pm on Aug 15, 2004 (gmt 0)

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The link builder actually replied and said in essence:

"Thank you now I can prove a point to my boss" basically meaning that he/she told the employer that something was flawed with their methods.

lol

Crush

9:15 am on Aug 21, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Probably reply with an expletive.

GranPops

10:51 pm on Aug 21, 2004 (gmt 0)

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How about this..........from this forum

"Send me your url, you don't even have it in your profile. Let's see what you're on about! If it's on-topic and approriate I might give it a link from my web site."

I seem to remember that we were told in school that man descended from the ape.

It would appear that the process is not yet complete.

Conard

11:10 pm on Aug 21, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I used to help the clueless linkers all of the time.
One poor guy had such a mess I wrote him about all of the things he should fix on his site to make it people friendly. It turned out he was a spry 70+ years old and had been taken for a ride by a couple of separate site developers.
I ended up helping him rebuild his whole site and moved it to a better host which saved him a ton of money.
Fast forward 2 years and this guy is now buried in orders.

Today, I just delete the requests that don't measure up.