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I 've been happy with the Visual Quickstart Guide series and the Bible series of books. The first gets me going quickly, and the second usually has the detailed information I'm looking for.
Of coarse, it seems most stuff is best answered and learned on the web.
It is very much biased towards commercial sites, and talks about site design more than technologies. If you want an insight into designing for a company, this is it.