Debbie
Make a down payment on the debt with an offer to make regular payments. Then ask them about the domain names again.
Right now the domain names are apparently the only leverage they have on you to get the money that is owed to them. Why should they cooperate when you appear ready to leave them with a bad debt?
I won't pay them now for sure for a long time since they are doingthis....did it occur to you im in a dispute with them about various charges...but nevertheless this has nothing to do with these domains which i don't have anything to do with or own!
debbie
....did it occur to you im in a dispute with them about various charges...
Yes, it did occur to me. So did several other things. But you left that part out of the original post. The facts you presented were that you owe the hosting company money and that they control domains that you want to change.
Who shows up as the Registrant when you do a whois? The hosting company, you, or your client(s)? If it is the hosting company then you are probably going to need to pay them. If it is your name, then you can probably file some type of dispute. If it is your client(s), then they may be able to persuade the hosting company by going directly to them. Otherwise the client would need to file a dispute/complaint.
Thank's for your thoughts!