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But the Hotmail address has a different name (a boy's, probably her husband, same last name albeit a typical one).
Also, using our tracking software I was able to track her movements through the site and how she found us--Google, with a generic search term. She did not read the "order info" page, which is unusual for our customers. She doesn't appear to be a repeat customer, although with cookie-blocking that's no longer reliable.
Any advice? Thoughts?
Thank you!
1) hotmail account with a boy's name
2) Kuala Lumpur is in Malaysia, major cc fraud center
3) check out this article on cc fraud from Kuala Lumpur:
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Thanks for the article; it was news to me, although I'm not unaware of the risks in general. Well, if she tries to order anything else, I'll say no.
Have a good weekend, and thanks again for your thoughtful input, here and in other posts on fraud.
Christi
I was just about to post a message on this when I checked the refresh and saw that you've sent it...therefore i've cut nearly all of the message out.
what i did have was this
...I'm also aware of my Malay ex gf getting increasingly frustrated when she was continually refused by merchants
despite having made a valid, authorised, credit card purchase because of her country of origin. She usually ended up purchasing from an Asian retailer for this reason.
Yes, there's fraudsters out there - like everywhere - but there's also a huge amount of customers wanting to make an honest transaction. I hope in your case it's the latter.
Sometimes I just have to trust my gut. And I feel for your ex. Yeah, legit people get burned. Of course as a legit online retailer it becomes a matter of weighing the odds. I didn't like the Hotmail address. But the fact that the boy's name (in the e-mail address) matched the girl's last name led me to think it was maybe legit.
That and the nice condo building they're living in!
I hope like your ex this gal is okay and it turns out all right. Thanks for your feedback and perspective.
Have a great weekend!
Christi