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Does this forum hate newbies?

subtitled: give 'em a break

         

brizad

1:32 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Geez-the attitude in this forum can be so negative. I have been reading/posting/lurking at the google forum for 2-1/2 years. For the most part people there are respectful and polite to newbies and "dumb questions."

I have been looking at this forum for only about 2 days and I see so much hostility (mainly from 1-2 people) towards newbies and their "dumb questions."

Yes, I know that it is annoying to see the same questions over and over again. Yes, it is annoying to find people looking for a "free ride."

BUT, remember, none of us were born with all of this knowledge. We ALL had to start somewhere and we all had to learn and we all asked "dumb questions" at the beginning.

At the risk of sounding like some existential idiot..."The only dumb questions are the ones left unasked." If you don't ask you don't learn. A baby is not born with innate knowledge of SEO...at least I wasn't :-)

To the newbie in that post--
To put it in a more gentle manner. You don't get something for nothing. It takes lots of work and knowledge and time. You have to invest in this endeavour just as you would have to invest in the knowledge to be a lawyer or anything else.

I think part of the problem is that the general public sees and reads stories about the internet and they get all confused and excited. On TV I see "get rich on the internet" and "get rich on ebay" infomercials. Combine this with stories about amazon, google, google IPO, ebay, and everthing else about this internet gold rush, and you get a very confused public.

It is like me trying to explain to my 67 year old mother why AOL is not the same as the internet. UGH! It's all the same thing to them.

So, I hope that I am not in the wrong here. I always assume that any question is OK to ask. (also the webmaster world search feature doesn't work that well IMHO) I don't know, maybe it is the money? Maybe there is a history of lame people coming here?

Anyway that is just my 2 cents. I figure that you can tell a person the same thing in a nice way or a rude way. I try to choose the nice way if possible.

mfishy

2:14 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I think that what happened was this particular member came in and asked many, many very simple questions that could have been answered by a tiny bit of effort on their own part. I find folks to be extremely helpful here, but if one is not willing ot put in any effort at all on his own....

brizad

2:48 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I completely agree! No one wants to help you if you don't help yourself. That is the way it should be.

IDEA:
Maybe at the top of every webmaster world page we should put a newbie FAQ. Or maybe the permanent #1 post on every forum should have the FAQ's relating to that forum. That would save the old timers AND the newbies lots of headaches. MODERATORS?

jomaxx

3:31 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Oh please. Stick around for a while and you'll see that people on this forum are incredibly willing to spend significant time and effort sharing their expertise. There's literally millions of dollars worth of free advice in the WebmasterWorld archives. Even that guy from Russia who asked about the best ways to spam, and seemed to be fishing around for ways to rip off affiliate programs, was given very thoughtful and respectful responses.

But web marketing is a real profession, requiring deep knowledge in many different areas. Someone who comes in and in effect asks "How do I get in on this scam?" is trivializing what we do. That disrespects our professionalism and it implies that we are all participating in some kind of get-rich-quick pyramid scheme.

Speaking personally, if you do some minimal homework and ask specific questions, I will help in whatever way I can. But if someone expects me to do a complete brain core-dump in response to a vague question like "How can I build a web site so I can earn money from Amazon?", then forget it. I usually do not participate in those discussions.

eljefe3

3:35 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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We love newbies here as this gives both newbies, ex-newbies and long time veterans a chance to participate and give back to the community.

gopi

4:31 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Brizad , If you read my previous reponses to that particular member in a couple of threads you can see i genuinely tried to help him out - i replied his sticky also!

But he keep on asking things like how to spam /how to rip off lead affiliate programs etc etc ...Its not his newbie ignorance but rather his attitude which annoyed me...

My final response was meant to be a satire .Anyway i felt bad about it later but it went past the editing time!

moltar

4:36 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Subj: Does this forum hate newbies?

For the most part people there are respectful and polite to newbies and "dumb questions."

You answered your own question... :)

Anyways, I beleive most of us here welcome newbies well all the time (including me). I understand that everyone has to start somewhere.

I also agree with responses above. I do not mind help, but I don't do someone's homework/research. For most of the time, you can tell a newbie willing to learn from someone just being lazy. After all, most of those answers are at most 2-3 queries away using just keywords from subj.

By the way, have you ever tried participating in linux related news groups? Those who did will understand me ;)

FromRocky

5:21 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I do not entirely agree with all responses above. The reason is that you can ignore the questions if you feel they are dumb.

yanov

10:08 am on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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LOL.what's happening here?
I though that no one gives a $^&^ about such discussions.Now after brizad's words I feel too embarrassed.I'm afraid that gopi is right.
I just saw a friend that received his first cheque after 2-3 months.He is not so smart so I calculated that I can do it faster.:)))
Maybe this is my mistake(impatience).
I already apologized to gopi for my behavior.
Please people close or delete this thread.It just not appropriate for this site.It will lower it's PR.
:)))))

fidibidabah

5:12 pm on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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"Please people close or delete this thread.It just not appropriate for this site.It will lower it's PR."

LOL! That might be one of THE most amusing things I've ever seen in this forum. I have new respect for you :D

And anyway, I'm a comparitive newbie to these forums. I know a little bit but people here accepted me rather well (with an exception of a few who will remain unnamed :P).

But I agree with this thread being rediculous.

brizad

8:18 pm on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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But web marketing is a real profession, requiring deep knowledge in many different areas. Someone who comes in and in effect asks "How do I get in on this scam?" is trivializing what we do. That disrespects our professionalism and it implies that we are all participating in some kind of get-rich-quick pyramid scheme.

Speaking personally, if you do some minimal homework and ask specific questions, I will help in whatever way I can. But if someone expects me to do a complete brain core-dump in response to a vague question like "How can I build a web site so I can earn money from Amazon?", then forget it. I usually do not participate in those discussions.

You are entirely correct. It seemed that the guy got flamed and I thought it went overboard. That is why I asked.

I believe that in general the people in webmaster world are very helpful. I am a new reader to *this* forum since I am looking at getting into this business. I have been 4 years with a "normal" ecommerce site and am getting burned out. The affilite business it a new challenge for me and I am ready to learn from the brains here at this forum. Ears open-mouth shut. ;-)

ThomasB

9:50 pm on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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WebmasterPlace is the only site you need if you want to start a succesfull internet business. Of course there's much more out there, but you get a piece of everything here. And as soon as you researched the bit the people are very friendly and helpful.

yanov

11:43 pm on May 8, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Everyone is happy now,right?
I'm not joking about deleting this link.
Take an example.What the newbies do?
They read everything nomatter what it is(I know it from personal experience :)))) ).
And I think if such threads are not deleted they will only confuse or slow the process of learning the relevant things.DELETE.

ronin

1:18 pm on May 9, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I have been reading and contributing to this board for just over a year and have found it to be the most intelligent and respectful forum I have ever come across.

Questions which cannot be answered by using the sitesearch function or by reading through recent threads are usually given more time by other members than those questions which could be answered with a minimal amount of research.

For people who really don't know what they're doing there is a "friendly" folder for those who are new to the web. I imagine you can ask any number of inane questions here and always get a kindly, patient response.

But just to charge into a folder and start asking questions like: "I've heard you can make big bucks! Let's do it! Where do I start? Give me all the info I need to know!" is never going to win a very favourable reaction from anyone here who has put years of patience and learning into what they do.

I think actually, the responses to Yanov's questions were both measured and patient. The oft-repeated message was go and read and learn something yourself and when you have a less nebulous set of concerns, come back and ask small questions on specific points.

yanov> When you are the moderator, you can choose which threads should be deleted. Until then, best of luck on your learning curve.

mfishy

1:31 pm on May 9, 2004 (gmt 0)

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It is sorta funny that folks here have busted their a$$ figuring out how to make lot's of money on the web and some one comes in and says, "Tell me!" :)

fidibidabah

4:04 pm on May 9, 2004 (gmt 0)

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It's even more amusing that they give away the majority of their secrets ;)

wellzy

4:09 pm on May 9, 2004 (gmt 0)

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It is sorta funny that folks here have busted their a$$ figuring out how to make lot's of money on the web and some one comes in and says, "Tell me!" :)

I agree. He wanted to know how and he wanted to know NOW. I tried to stay out of that thread. When I was a newbie I respected the 'senior member' because with time and patience they helped me gain the knowledge I needed. I realized how full of knowledge they were.

I guess my point is, it's not what you ask, it's how you ask it.

wellzy

esllou

6:06 pm on May 9, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I think what narks people off is others not wanting to do any of the work that we have all put in to get where we are.

If someone does some thinking and research and work on their own and comes here for the final piece in the jigsaw, we have the right to answer or ignore. But if someone wants all the pieces, that is asking a bit too much in my opinion.

yanov

7:53 pm on May 9, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Oh come on people!This all started from one stupid quiestion I asked about making money by filling forms(I didn't even know what were these forms).I feel that you want newbies to go through the long path so that you don't feel f#$@ed,right?You want them to go through it because some of you are scared of new rivals.And you are right up to a point.
You don't need to give free advice(you are not teachers).I again say that you are right but what will happen if the teachers in school say the same thing as you.Or image this which is even worse:if people didn't thought each other now we would have been STILL in the Stone Age.Isn't that right?
And again this forum's contribution is priceless(to me)!

Belive me ,before I hit the botton submit I preyed
for not to be banned.:)))
BEst wishes Asen
p.s.-I'm sorry for my bad English

ronin

10:01 pm on May 9, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Asen, anything worth learning takes a long time and requires the gradual build up of experience. There are no easy answers to the big questions you are asking - none of us could help you with the kinds of questions you are asking, because each answer to a problem requires the context of the problem, the strategies so far pursued, your hypotheses on what might work and request to others about what they might suggest.

I didn't even understand your question about forms. By the looks of things you didn't understand it yourself. At least thoroughly comprehend what it is you need to know before bringing it to the attention of others on this board.

If you don't know what it is you need to know then go away and do some reading and come back when you do.

danieljean

12:32 am on May 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I don't think we handled Yanov's request as well as we could have. No need to beat ourselves up over it, yet this situation is sure to come up again.

After a few months of participating at WW, there are concerns that come again and again, so I'd like to second Brizad's suggestion to have FAQs featured at the top of each forum. Let me be bold and suggest a Wiki format. I imagine it would get phenomenal PR in very little time :)

ronin

12:48 am on May 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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It would be spammed to high heaven. But you can take the suggestion to the WW Community Centre.

jackburton2000

6:21 am on May 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Well I for one learned a ton of tricks of the trade just by lurking. It is rather annoying if someone has absolutely no clue about anything, then comes in and just says, "Dude, look, I don't know nuthin', so tell me -- from the very beginning!" It's a bit much. At least lurk a while, read a while, try to not be so clueless. Sometimes people expect way too much and doesn't want to lift a hand to help themselves. A little effort goes a long way.

ronin

8:36 am on May 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Just between you and me, I think the boy has a lot of potential... he just needs to temper his impatience to learn and start from the ground up (pretty much like we all had to...)

yanov

10:57 am on May 10, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Please inform me if this page for FAQ in the Affiliate Programme field is published.
10x cya.