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Reasons You Will Delete a Link Exchange Request Hands Down...

What makes you promptly delete an email?

         

Teshka

1:22 am on Jul 14, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Ever get link exchange requests that are more like lectures? What lines will make you delete a request in annoyance without even reading it through?

Here are a few of mine....

We would appreciate if you could adhere to certain guidelines before we become link partners:(Uhm, no)

Let me tell you something about search engine optimization...(I know something about it; that's why my site is higher ranked than yours, and you're asking me for a link)

If you want to exhange links with us, click this, go here, and fill out this to make a request(Are you kidding--aren't you making a request from me?)

Amy email that goes on more than 2 paragraphs.

Sound familiar? I don't know about the rest of you, but I've only got so much time in the day (and I don't want to waste it reading letters from strangers), so my advice is to keep it short and sweet if you want a link. Oh, and atleast pretend you've gone to the front page of my site by mentioning the topic somewhere in the email...

SEOtop10

2:39 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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I recently read somewhere (so idea is not mine) that when a low PR site approaches you for a link exchange, don't say no.

You can drive a good bargain by asking for 2 links for 1. Most will be happy to oblige. Since they are actively seeking links, you can expect their PR to soon go up and then you will have a major benefit accruing to your site.

thewebboy

2:42 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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The worst ones are the request that I add a link to their site but they get my site's address wrong!

peter andreas

2:56 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Like some one else said we delete them all. Just don't bother with link exchanges and never have - doesn't seem to have done us any harm though.

Webdetective

3:23 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Peter,
How then do you build link popularity? Do you buy your links?
Fred

robotsdobetter

3:49 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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How then do you build link popularity?

If you have a good content site they will come, but takes longer. If you take this road I suggest to write articles and than submit them to article sites.

- I hate when they spell words wrong.
- When it's a request for a link exchange on a links page.
- When they can't give me their first and last name.

jeremymgp

4:20 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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Hi everyone,

PR, green bars, link popularity - they all have their place but it's site content that sets the standard. If a site's good I'll link, if it's less good or off-topic I won't.

Things that create a negative response with link requests include:

Over-pushing the benefits:
eg. "if you link to us it's to our mutual benefit", "I'm sure you'll get a lot of traffic from our link", and other such talk which stresses how, coincidentally, doing what we want just has so many benefits for you. This is really 1-out-of-10 caliber sales talk.

Long messages:
Link messages are very common, I've seen your message many times before and I know what you want. Be polite and straight - all you really need to say is "Please could you link to us", and I'll say yes or no depending on your site.

Repeat messages:
I saw your message the first time, don't send it again as this just annoys me. People make decisions largely on how they feel, so if you want my help don't make me feel bad. It ain't a tough concept really.

Personalized messages:
Everyone says you should send personalized messages but I don't really like them - it's just so obvious you're trying to cover up the fact you've sent a similar message to 499 other folks. Putting my name, website URLs, and inquiring about my relatives' health doesn't really change anything. If it's personal it'll be obvious it's personal, and if it's been sent to multiple recipients it'll be similarly obvious. Like before, just be short, simple and open about the fact you'd like a link.

Followup/Warning messages:
This is the same as sending multiple messages, it's just the time scale that differs. I got your message, I've read it, repeating yourself just creates a negative response.

Messages saying "I've already linked to you so...":
While I want links, this says to me "I helped you so now you've gotta help me". It takes away choice and creates more negative response. Also of course, the links often aren't so great anyway.

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Most of these points stem in part from email templates found in link development software. Like all such tools it's possible to use them legitimately, but in general they are not used correctly and webmasters with any experience are accustomed to these templated messages.

One good thing I like is link code, my links directory has descriptions for each site and I don't want to have to write them each time.

So, in sum here's what I like for link requests:

  • - Keep it short.
  • - Lose the chaff and simply ask for the link.
  • - Give a small amount of clear, honest information about your site.
  • - Include link code.

    Then it's up to me, or rather up to you - if you've made a good site you'll get more links, more traffic, and more importantly be offering a worthwhile service.

    Best Regards,

    Jeremy

  • microcars

    4:21 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    right at the contact info email is a note that says we do NOT do LINK EXCHANGES and any requests for them will be ignored.

    but that doesn't stop people from trying. Amazingly enough most all the ones who request a link exchange have already Linked to one of my sites (but of course they are a PR2 or something....)

    I don't care, the sites in question have "killer content" for the intended audience and that is what people link to them for.

    Powdork

    4:41 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    Regarding link code,
    I would rather have just the title, description, and url. When I am given link code I usually can't use it because it rarely matches the layout of my site. It often includes formatting and it is usually done to get some ridiculously long spammy looking anchor text included. I certainly don't have a problem with it being included, anything to make it easier is good, but I rarely use it. When I do link out, I often make up my own anchor and description of the site anyway. I feel this little bit of originality helps both my site and the one I am linking to.

    skibum

    4:53 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    Anything that appears to be an auto generated or templated request gets deleted, anything that is off-topic gets deleted and that is if they make it through the spam filter. Write good content or create good free tools and watch links come naturally. As far as linking out, if I find your site & think it would be valuable to the folks visiting my site, I just add a link, sometimes a review & don't even bother asking for a recip.

    moishe

    5:32 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    I had a PR6 site send me an email asking for a link exchange to my site, they had already put my link up but it was the wrong link, my site is "widget.countrytld" and the link they put up was "widgetcountrytld.com". Just for kicks I did the link exchange linking back to them from my actual site, then I bought "widgetcountrytld.com". I'll be darned if I'm not getting about 20 uniques a day from their site:)

    As my site has only recently gotten PR, I don't get many link requests, but I have had good luck using this approach:

    Good Day,
    Would you be interested in trading links from your site at www.yoursite.com to mine at www.mysite.com?
    Something like this for mine would be great:
    <my kw anchor link and all that>
    Thanks,
    Me

    In 6 weeks I have sent 250 requests and gotten over 100 links from sites that are on topic with mine.

    SlyOldDog

    7:08 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    Hey guys - putting messages on your sites to webmasters saying you don't want a link exchange won't help you much. 99% of all link exchange messages these days have got to be from robots anyhow.

    Just also wondering why those people with pagerank 8 sites who never link out to anyone are reading the link development forum?

    percentages

    7:24 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    >99% of all link exchange messages these days have got to be from robots anyhow.

    Agreed, 99% might be an under-estimate!

    >Just also wondering why those people with pagerank 8 sites who never link out to anyone are reading the link development forum?

    LMAO...Me too! But if they have and are, then good luck to 'em:)

    peter andreas

    7:51 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    This is a reply to Fred. We have never bothered with link swapping of any sort and we don't buy them or actively seek them (ie incoming links). People link to us organically and we link to other sites which fit the content of a particular page, but we never seek recipricol links back for fear of this being banned in the future (or even now) . Its just something we haven't spent our time on as we are too busy. Not because we have any real objection its just that we feel our limited time is better spent on content. This thread is one of those featured on the front of webmasterworld so perhaps thats why peole are looking at it. Not saying this is right or even sensible! by any means, but thats what we do.

    1milehgh80210

    8:02 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    Of course you can build the best site in the world, but if no one finds it initially, how can they link to it 'organically'?
    The only ways i've seen to jump start a site are-
    recip links
    buy links
    buy PPC
    link from other sites you control..

    sit2510

    8:18 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    >>> You will often get link requests from brand new PR 0 sites, so accepting those can really pay off when they soon gain in high ranking.

    In the past, I would totally agree. Now the situation is quite different and getting quality links are much tougher. Many of brand new sites do not make it and I think less than 5% of brand new PR0 site today would be capable of returning you a link of say PR4 in next 6 months, 1 year or forever...

    While some link requests from PR0 sites might be good, I find that most of them are problematic. First of all, they are in abundance, link requests are sloppish, and worst yet, sites are crappy. Secondly, they waste our precious time either to click to read their message and to review their poor sites. Thirdly, they mar our opportunity to find the real gems of those real quality PR0 sites.

    Another problem I often encounter with exchanging links with brand new PR0 sites is that I often find myself having to do a double job later. When their links and PR grow, they have a nuisance practice of moving the links to another pages of lower PR value. It often ends up that I have to re-look at the site and re-mark the new location pages.

    Another problem of being an early bird to exchange links with new sites is that after they grow there is a high possibility that our major competitors will be on the same pages too. Therefore, I prefer to be an evening bird regarding this issue.

    Powdork

    8:35 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    If you use firebird (or firefox), all pages have the same pr. Ignorance is bliss.:)

    Longhaired Genius

    10:14 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    Not any more! Firefox Pagerank Status extension [pagerankstatus.mozdev.org]

    mumbledawg

    10:25 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    The number one reason I delete link exchange requests is because they don't include the URL of the site they want you to link to. I am not interested in link exchanges but I am curious and would click on the URL if they included it. There is a chance I would really like the site and put a link to it that way. But if you are too scared to give me the URL up front, you can be sure I will not email back and ask for it.

    wellzy

    11:21 am on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    I like the e-mails where it is obviously a robot.

    "I visited your site today widgets.com /blue-widgets.order.htm and felt it was on topic with our website to exchange links."

    I like these better than the e-mails from the treasurer of some remote S. African town telling me I have $30 million in lottery winnings.

    wellzy

    rytis

    12:23 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    1. Open the link request message and try to quickly spot things as mentioned in this thread: link on site A ask to link to B; teaching me SEO; any mention of PR etc. Never read the bla bla, life is too short to read letters from strangers, as somebody well said in this thread. I am already in linkexchange mood from E-mail Subject (email without clear Subject don't make past Mailwasher).

    2. If (1) passed, look for URL where they have placed link to me. If not seen instantly e.g. requires scrolling - delete.

    3. Take note of the last part of URL where they say my link is (like widget-links.htm), and go to their home page for general impression.

    4. Look what the site is about, and if experience and intuition tells me worthwile, go to other random page and try to find in navigation "Other Sites" or "Directory" or "Other Widgets" or anything that would suggest Links-page. Yes, links-page has to be reachable not only from homepage.

    5. If (4) passed and my link appears inplace, go back to email and read it this time, and if it still does not rise red flags to me - proceed with link exchange.

    No problem linking to PR0, if you passed (1,2,3,4,5) I know you are serious and honest webmaster/SEO, and your site is likely to stay there in a year and two ;)

    R

    robotsdobetter

    12:35 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    No problem linking to PR0, if you passed (1,2,3,4,5) I know you are serious and honest webmaster/SEO, and your site is likely to stay there in a year and two ;)

    Serious and honest? I can get a PR 5 with no problem and without work and I am not the only one. So how is that serious?

    rytis

    1:03 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    robotsdobetter - I also don't have problems with how other people do business ;)

    Only answered the thread original question how everyone deals with linkexchange requests.

    Webdetective

    1:47 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    The article writing and publishing is always a great idea, but what if there isn't a lot of content for me to write about the products I'm promoting? Widget Software.

    I'm hardly an authority on Widgetry work. I'm also no expert on Widget software, widgeting your employee's or widgeting your kids.
    Fred

    [edited by: martinibuster at 10:06 pm (utc) on Aug. 1, 2004]
    [edit reason] Widgetized. Please, no spefics. [/edit]

    robotsdobetter

    1:50 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    The article writing and publishing is always a great idea, but what if there isn't a lot of content for me to write about the products I'm promoting?
    Than why start one? You should start web sites with something you know and won't have problems with. You can get free articles with reprint rights.

    webdev

    4:26 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    when I receive 8 emails all from the same person all saying the same thing to 8 different domains I own all on different subjetcs :)

    Solution1

    4:28 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    I've put some Javascript in the e-mail form on my site, that checks for word combinations like: "reciprocal link," "exchange links," and such. When people try to send a message with something like that in it, they get an alert that my site doesn't do link exchanges, and their e-mail will not be sent.

    I prefer to be organically linked to, and link only to sites that I've found myself.

    Webdetective

    5:31 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    Than why start one? You should start web sites with something you know and won't have problems with. You can get free articles with reprint rights.

    That's an idea. I haven't worked with reprint rights before. Does that entitle me to re-publish a copywrited article with the author's permission to add my own site link to it along with the author's link?

    It's my understanding that reprint rights however aren't free, but they aren't always very expensive either. Maybe I can find such articles along the subject of doing your own widgeting, etc.. Where could I begin looking?

    Reciprocal linking is also a pain in the butt as well.
    Fred

    [edited by: martinibuster at 10:54 pm (utc) on Aug. 1, 2004]
    [edit reason] Widgetized. [/edit]

    valeyard

    11:08 pm on Aug 1, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    I delete any link request that doesn't include both the name of my site (as opposed to the URL) and my personal name - information which is clearly available on my sites for those who bother to look.

    I'm happy to consider link exchanges with people, I'm not interested in approaches from robots.

    coco

    8:37 am on Aug 2, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    When I get a link request for my crappy neglected directory with no content, saying

    'I just visited your great site....

    beebware

    1:50 pm on Aug 2, 2004 (gmt 0)

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    I have an email contact form linked from every single page of my site - therefore any link requests sent to webmaster@<my domain> are totally ignored. If the requestee can't be bothered sending the email via the right method (and therefore to the right address), why should I spend my time reviewing it?

    However, nicely worded emails sent via the proper method which have come from somebody who has actually spent more than 10 seconds on my site (such as 'I notice on page Y you've got a listing of product Y priced at $z.zz'), then I'll be more willing to give a link to.

    Spend time, get results...

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