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In my own case I wrote to Google, and also got help from a friend who concocted some .htaccess wizardry that I don't even understand, to make sure that if a spider followed the link from the directory, it would get an error message. The page was indexed properly in the next update.
It's enormously frustrating, but be reassured that it's not a death sentence.