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I do not really have control over my mail server. My host is in control of that. I am now also recieving replies to spam from my yahoo account too. Man someone needs to lock down mail so spammers can't run rampant!
1) Type up a form letter apology and explanation and save it as a text file so you can cut and paste into emails you get from the spammees.
2) Get a copy of one of the emails with full headers so you can track down where it's really coming from and report the spammer to his ISP.
Good Luck. It can take quite awhile to dig out from under this kind of thing. Hope it all works out.
Oilman mentioned several good points already. Most importantly:
1) Inform your hosting provider and/or ISP, to keep them from shutting you down when the inevitable complaints start coming in.
2) Put a prominent note on your site, with an explanation.
3) Set up an autoreply on your abuse@mydomain.com address, sending out the same explanation (maybe your host will have do that for you).