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The joy of being self employed

         

vivalasvegas

1:33 pm on Mar 23, 2010 (gmt 0)

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I've been on my own for over 5 years and only now I truly realize what a blessing this is. At some point I felt that I needed a real job mostly in search of a busier social life. I work from home and not long ago I wanted to rent some office space in an attempt to separate my work from my spare time.

Not anymore. While renting an office may still be a good idea, I no longer feel that there's something wrong - me, alone at home all day long. I have learned to combine work and fun and I must say I don't really ever feel like working. It feels great to be so in control of your life, to do whatever you want whenever you want. I sometimes work all day long and the next day I do nothing. I go to the gym at 11am (trainer keeps wondering how I can be there in the middle of the day). I can socialize whenever I feel like. Of course I've had this same freedom since I started with my web marketing "career". Only now however I can clearly see what a privilege this is.

BeeDeeDubbleU

2:59 pm on Mar 23, 2010 (gmt 0)

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I agree. I have been self employed and working from home since November 2001. It's the best thing that ever happened to me. I am writing this from an all inclusive 5* hotel in Turkey where I am just finishing two weeks holiday off peak at great rates. I couldn't do this when working for the man.

It's great being your own boss.

iamkatemcg

5:15 pm on Mar 23, 2010 (gmt 0)

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Okay, I'm only on month 5 of working for myself, and even though I'm still struggling to build my business, it really is worth it. My stress levels are lower, I'm more productive, and I'm a better person for it. I'm now more afraid of having to go back to working for 'the man' than I was quitting my 9-to-5!

Viva and BeeDee, when you first started working for yourselves, how did you deal with feeling like you've not done enough in your day? Even though I know that I've accomplished a lot in a day, I still am having trouble with feeling like I should work until I am ready to pass out. How did you both handle that?

vivalasvegas

6:11 pm on Mar 23, 2010 (gmt 0)

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Viva and BeeDee, when you first started working for yourselves, how did you deal with feeling like you've not done enough in your day? Even though I know that I've accomplished a lot in a day, I still am having trouble with feeling like I should work until I am ready to pass out. How did you both handle that?


I remember I too would work long hours in my first months of self employment. It wasn't a feeling of guilt, I was simply enthusiastic about this business and I wanted to see quick results. I would wake up in the middle of the night just to check my stats.

Although one shouldn't get too confortable, the truth is that some websites don't need much maintenance once they're established. You can build a website that makes good money with 1-2 hours of work per day.

tonynoriega

7:38 pm on Mar 23, 2010 (gmt 0)

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Ehhh.. i tried it for about 14 months... yeah, business was slow, but i am just a cubicle warrior.

id rather ask my boss for Adobe CS4 and get it done right away rather than worrying about budgeting my business, keeping receipts, reporting it on taxes...

plus i have 3 young kids, so home didnt really work out for me..

lawman

10:20 pm on Mar 23, 2010 (gmt 0)

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Before law school I owned my own brick and mortar store for 15 years. Been out of law school for 20 years; self-employed for all but two of those years. When you count on yourself for success you are much sharper at what you do. Wouldn't have it any other way.

workingNOMAD

12:47 am on Mar 24, 2010 (gmt 0)

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Best thing that happened to me was 2005 redundancy - never looked back, visited some amazing places and lots of people I know in the rat race are very envious that I work where and when I want.

BeeDeeDubbleU

9:22 am on Mar 25, 2010 (gmt 0)

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how did you deal with feeling like you've not done enough in your day?

I didn't have these feelings. When I started I would happily do 16 hour days when I was busy and I still do this on occasion. The net effect is that I work many more hours than I did when employed but I can do this when it suits me. For example, in the evening my wife likes to watch soaps on TV. I hate them so when they are on I often choose to continue to work. The crucial word being 'choose'. :)

"Nothing is really work unless you would rather be doing something else."
J.M. Barrie (creator of Peter Pan)