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I contacted him and he admitted immediately that he had caused the problem. He still has the goods but I don't have the money. Paypal has it along with a copy of the guy's email admtting the mistake.
Why on earth does it take such a long time for them to settle this when it is so clear and simple? I have now been waiting five weeks and it's still under review by the Paypal resolution centre.
There is nothing left to resolve! What's the problem!
PayPal's business practices aside, they (along with your merchant account, had this been a chargeback through traditional CC processing) is not going to return your money until the issue is resolved on the cardholder's bank's side. The customer may have sent you an e-mail saying it's a mistake, but at the same time they could be continuing to tell their bank that they don't recognize the charge. They have no way of knowing that the e-mail from the customer is authentic, so the issue is not going to be resolved until the customer cancels the dispute on their end through their bank.
It's possible that PayPal may have sent the copy of the e-mail to the bank, and the bank is trying to confirm with the customer. But until the customer confirms that he wants to cancel the dispute, the bank isn't going to close the dispute. And until the bank closes the dispute, you can be sure PayPal won't return your money!
I think sometimes a transaction gets so BLEEP around with them that they actually don't know how to fix it.