Forum Moderators: buckworks
Do you have incoming links to yor site from other sites? Having a number of those, especially from fairly high ranking sites, will help your cause considerably.
Beyond that there is a phenomenon many are calling the "sandbox effect" that seems to delay some sites from appearing in the search results. I have not experienced this effect, but I have only put up one new site in the past year.
I would suggest reviewing the libraries in relevant forums here at WebmasterWorld, and asking lots of questions.
WBF