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If I understand you correctly, you want to show the live video on you website and at the same time you want to record the video and store it on your server.
I wouldn't recommend storing raw video data in a database. Unless you have a good reason, you can just store it as a video formatted file right on your server like you would an image or any other file.
Yes you can use Apache for this, but like I mentioned if you can use Darwin it is specifically made to broadcast/stream video.