Forum Moderators: phranque
Is there a way to accomplish this with only one instance of Apache running?
But for the restarting only, you don't need that, Apache can be restarted in such a manner that it does *not* stop responding to requests, check out the graceful restart in the Apache manual.
But if you describe your situation or problem more detailed, we can probably give you better hints (if this wasn't good enough :-)