I rent a dedicated server from a large webhost. On their marketing page, they advertise the service I'm paying for as "Fully Managed Dedicated Server Hosting". Every definition I can find on the web defines the distinction between "Managed" and "Fully Managed" is that with the former, the host keeps the OS up to date, while "Fully Managed" also includes updating associated popular software, such as SQLite.
However, when I recently asked them to update the SQLite on my server that was a few years old, they refused, saying it was my problem. I got the update installed myself after much difficulty (it's not my forté, and I got various errors), but then PHP wouldn't run (Internal Server Error on Hello World). I wrote to Support and they said that PHP is expecting the old version of SQLite (even though my Hello World script doesn't use SQLite). Their suggested fix is for me to pay them $100 to "re-image" the server (which would downgrade the SQLite), then another fee (probably $300) to have them update the SQLite.
If my offering were advertised as simply "Managed" then I couldn't complain, but this certainly doesn't feel like "Fully Managed" to me. What do you all think?