When someone shares a link on Facebook or in a Messenger conversation, the Facebook Crawler will crawl the HTML of the shared page to fetch data such as the page title, meta description, and thumbnail image, which are used to generate the preview.
This mechanism was abused (until recently?) by crawlers and scrapers using working FB account tokens to pull data from websites - notably e-commerce sites with product listings who have bot-blocking in place but white-list FB IP's.
Since I block Fecebook and occasionally see hits (facebookexternalhit) from FB IP addresses, I would imagine that some of these hits are indeed people sharing a URL to one of my pages. My question is, what would be the FB user experience if when sharing links FB is not able to generate a preview? Is the URL otherwise transmitted from the sender to the receiver? Or is the message sent - possibly without the URL? (I am not and never have been a fecebook user so I can't test this myself and I'm only vaguely aware of how FB works from a user pov).