I'm not looking for code (although that would be nice (-:), just a "Yes, we do this, it's possible" or a "No, AOL doesn't let you do this, they suck", so I don't waste my time.
Thanks in advance.
had to be on the receiver's list being one and a ton of others, I know it took us a while to get it working and when we did we scrapped it, too much hassle for something that wasn't overly critical.
code was straight forward but the rules were what gave us fits. I imagine it is possible as well with NET::AIM but I would look into the rules of sending and accepting messages.