...is not spamming, it is called advertising and i believe g can see this.
Let's clarify what we are discussing. What underpins your goals is free traffic from Google. Let's not forget this:
we are discussing free traffic from Google. Let's also not forget that Google resists exploitation. So, what's the approach? White hat SEO has historically been preoccupied with identifying scalable loopholes and tricks. Thus we have things like viral link strategies and PageRank sculpting. Another approach, one that I'm in favor of, is the pragmatic approach. And that is to work within the goals that Google has set for it's own users.
White hat SEOs
promoted Text-Link-Ads.com paid links [web.archive.org] to their clients on the basis of the argument that paid links were advertising, not spamming. There was a
famous round table at SES San Jose 2007 [seroundtable.com] where several of our WebmasterWorld members and others debated with Matt Cutts about why paid links were not bad. And for a moment Google hesitated because, as I understood at the time, there was an unresolved internal discussion on whether or not TLA and the like was advertising or an attempt to influence the SERPs. Then the hammer came down and Google penalized paid links. The
white hats sang a different tune [moz.com] once Google started penalizing the paid links. It was naïve to endorse paid links in the first place. While the context of that was paid links, the substance of what happened is relevant to your situation. I think it is wise to avoid following the behavior of the white hat SEOs where it takes a spanking (instead of common sense) to get you to do the smart thing. Just use some common sense when it comes to
free traffic from Google (and yes, it's not really free).
If you are building a business around free traffic from Google then it makes sense to understand the rules. It's called being pragmatic. Being pragmatic is a point of view where you deal with things realistically as they are. Working within the restrictions means knowing where the line is and working right up to that line knowing that if you miscalculate there will be consequences. It also means working within the restrictions knowing full well the line and keeping a distance from it. It's not about being dictated to by Google and being a puppet. It's like Gravity. You can fight it but you can't ignore it. Google is the gravity that underpins our actions in the quest for free traffic from Google. You want soda from the machine? You can kick it and break your foot kicking it. Or you can be smart, pragmatic, and follow the directions. No one says you have to like it. It's simply the reality.
There are several ways about it. The white hat way is to seek loopholes. This leads into crappy short term SEO like PageRank sculpting. The alternative is the pragmatic approach to SEO, which is what people on this forum are trying to gently nudge you toward.
I am trying to give you the benefit of a historical perspective of why you are at this point and an overview of how this industry has approached the challenge of free traffic from Google. Good luck.