OK my main site has been up for 3 months now.

Different SE's treat it very differently

[pompousjohn]

It is a Joomla implementation with the SEO switches enabled.

I have about 30 pages of content, and 1-3 inbound links for each page, and 15 or so for the main page

Google spiders my site every few days but does not list any inbound links for my site. I rank fairly well for a few keywords with google, but obviously could stand to do alot better.

MSN seems to spider my site several times a day. I have 6 backlinks listed with them but some are internal. I rank decently with MSN for about twice as many pages as Google

Yahoo doesn't seem to want to spider my site at all. When it does it only hits 1 or 2 page and then stays away for weeks. I have 3 backlinks listed with Yahoo but I have never gotten any traffic from their SE, so I assume I don't rank at all for anything.

Does this all seem normal, given the newness of my site? Can I expect that the SE's will take more notice of me as time goes on or is it likely I am doing something wrong?

[txbakers]

Does this all seem normal, given the newness of my site?

Yes.

Can I expect that the SE's will take more notice of me as time goes on

Yes.