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You can't force the option to appear
So, for most the best way to keep the file from opening is to provide an alternate zip version.
Of course, there IS one other way built into all browsers that doesn't require ANY additional files or code -- simply include a line instructing your users to RIGHT-click on the link and choose "Save Target As. . . " All depends on what you think is reasonable to expect of the users of the particular web site.