There is a .net domain available for sale (from someone who owns it currrently) that would be perfect. Basically it is KEYWORD.net for the target audience. The .com tld is not available.
Alternatively, I could get KEYWORD#*$!.com instead.
Any suggetions? Would you rather have the .net domain that targets the primary keyword for this niche perfectly, or a .com domain that is not so perfect?
If it is not being used (ie-parked) then I would be inclined to go for the .net and take advantage of the first to market theory.
You will suffer in word of mouth advertising, but you may make up for that in organic rank for such an exact match keyword name.