What is the correct way to use this with php-fpm? I mean all the basic details (to tell my host). This is basically whats happened.
We activated it with php-fpm on the cgi php handler but opcache does not get going. It is stuck on 2 cache hits and 58 misses.
My host suggested change to dso php handler. So we did that and opcache appears up and running, it has lots of cache hits but it broke the site, those who visit are now struggling to stay logged in and are seeing pages that are not updated (unless they refresh the page, then they are logged in and see the updated list, if that makes sense). The problem is this happens all the time, whenever logging in it just delivers cached pages that are not up to date (again unless refreshed)
Changing back to php-fpm / cgi fixes that issue. But it doesn't explain why the other setting broke the site nor help me set up opcache.
Explain to me as if I was 5 because my server knowledge isn't there and my hosts are just pointing to the web developer and they are pointing me to the hosts.