My decision is mine>> I respect the many different ages, countries, and backgrounds this forum has in it.
Getting to point in life were my wife's family has to make a decision on their mother. She is welcome here but only if she pays us a small fee so she is never left alone, otherwise my wife needs to work.
Background-9 kids in the family 5 girls and 4 boys. All the girls work and are independent all the boys are sorry sacks of sh-t and live off other people.
My wife will not be able to work because I don't trust her family, the girls maybe the blood sucking boys no way. I can see it now mom falls going outside she lays out there say 8 hours and dies her sorry a boys sue me for neglect.
I already asked if she would get an alert thing on her wrist wife's mom said she didn't need it,
Well she does she can't take care of herself, Falls all the time diabetic, overweight and so forth.
I am not a monster but this is business. She can afford the 20.00 yea 20.00 a day I said she would be charged. Her reply I shouldn't be charged at all. My reply then move into a retirement center because you won't be staying here.
Am I a monster or am I looking out for the interest of MY family and children.