Except the inetcpl.cpl method which I had already tried is not showing all the cookies or stored media.
I'm building a flash file that looks to see if the swf file already exists and tells the browser that if it has already been there, then don't play the movie, just go to the end frame.
On my XP system, I can find the swf, remove it, then test the file to make sure it works.
On Windows 7, it plays the first time, then won't play on revisits but I can not find the swf file to remove it and test like I can on XP.
Clearing cookie, all temp files, etc does not work. The file is being stored in some other location that I can not find and it appears to be hidden even after setting the folders options to show hidden files.