Essex_boy - 9:31 pm on Nov 18, 2007 (gmt 0)

The real problem is being unwilling to do what it takes to change your situation -

My experience is that they have no concept of anything better, when they do their friends and family have often conditioned them since childhood that, 'that kind of thing is for others'

Theyd like a better way of life and have the ability to have one but they lack the confidence.