le_gber - 7:43 am on Jun 9, 2006 (gmt 0)

Teamwork is essential in most endevours. To say you aren't a team player is like saying you aren't employable.

to say you don't want to spend your Friday's after work down the pub doesn't mean that you are not a team player or that you cannot work towards a common goal.

In your case, you were at the interview and you can add tone and attitude to what she said. From what you added, yes saying what she did wasn't a really clever thing to do.

But taking it only on her words "I won't be expected to socialize with the rest of the staff, will I?" only means that she didn't want to feel rejected or a loner if she didn't want to get plastered every weekend with the other staff members.