hannamyluv - 3:08 am on Mar 5, 2006 (gmt 0)

I've been married in the legal sense to my husband for 3 years, though we've been together for nearly 9 years. we didn't get "married" till our first son was almost 2. Darn insurance rules.

My advice is summed up by a quote from someone else's grandmother. "Marriage is not 50/50, but a series of 80/20's."