incrediBILL - 2:17 am on Apr 27, 2011 (gmt 0)
I wonder if it is too risky to meet with other publishers in person.
Discussing AdSense is fine, when they start badgering you for your site name, not fine.
Been to a lot of little webmaster gatherings and some people are open about their sites, some people aren't, just go with the flow and stand your ground if someone gets too nosy and you'll be OK.
Only discuss what you're comfortable discussing, you may grow to trust someone and share more to have someone to bounce ideas off, takes time.