mivox - 11:20 pm on Apr 8, 2003 (gmt 0)

What's a girl to do?

Simple. Like everyone who understood your original example has said, either...

1. Ignore them, and they'll probably go away.

or...

2. Get a lawyer to respond to their letter, telling them they have no legal leg to stand on, and they will end up paying your legal bill as well as their own if they try to pursue the matter.