If you fail to see the connection between how your privileged and rich life is made possible by the fact that others suffer, then it is not I who has to learn a lot.
If you however mean that I still have to learn to live with the fact that humans are generally selfish and hypocritical #*$!s who don't give a damn about their fellow humans and their future, but still pretend they do, then you are right. But if you don't care as you say, then you should not contribute to ANY conversation and just be the unethical, a-moral person you claim to be.
The fact that a system does not accommodate certain people should not be made the responsibility of those people. It is after all the fault of the system.
There is nothing utopian about that, it is a simple matter of logic and compassion opposed to your world view of commercialism and capitalism.
As just one (of countless) example how your life and "our" economic views and systems influence peoples lives: [globalissues.org...]