Those who want to do things honestly will turn to authorative sources rather a discussion on a message board.
For those who want to be told it's OK to just take the easy road, trying to explain to them is an exercise in futility.
The OP seemed to be seeking opinions/feedback instead of affirmation. Various opinion and feedback has been offered. It's up to the OP to decide what do do now - that's the most anyone should expect from a message forum.