londrum - 4:51 pm on Jun 29, 2012 (gmt 0)
i think im going to have to learn how to use Shell, because i havent a clue about that at the moment. from what i have read that is the only way im going to be able to do it in the future... but... i figured this one out anyway. it was wordpress.
i was calling all the wordpress functions on my non-wordpress pages, so i could grab a few posts and print them out. using a little bit of php i found out that when you call all those functions the memory use goes up three-fold! so i have stopped including all those functions now, and im just doing some straight calls to the database instead, which seems to have solved the problem