.... aside from the collatoral damage , what have you done to your site to make improvements?
Collatoral damage or not, considerable improvements will strengthen your sites from Panda updates in the long run. I don't think Dani made any major changes or ongoing improvements after the 1st drop - not that she needed to ( to the best of my knowledge ). Maybe, if she had, she might have escaped, but who knows ... her site looks pretty good anyway.
I encourage you and others to find a way through by sharing your knowledge and communicating positively through these boards. A tough ask right now .. i know - but keep an eye on solutions. Best of luck.