mhansen - 6:48 pm on Oct 13, 2010 (gmt 0)
If you feel your site is high quality and worthy of being in the index, this is one of the situations where I would suggest hitting the Google webmaster forums and asking for help or guidance from the volunteers.
- Be 100% open and forthright, they will find & know everything, including things you don't mention!
- Be genuine and ask for help, thank for the help etc.
- Realize that they are NOT Google employees (Except the likes of John Mu etc) and just webmasters like you, who offer help.
- Read the FAQ BEFORE you post the question.
Finally... put on your armor before you go in. You WILL have to disclose the URL and it will be scrutinized in the public view. If you have any issues with that, you may want to think twice...