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---- Contacting customers with failed orders, abandoned or declined orders
mchowdhary - 11:39 am on Nov 1, 2011 (gmt 0)Thread source:: http://www.webmasterworld.com/ecommerce/4378569.htm
You can send an automated Order failed email. Even Amazon does it and it's fine. I agree, do not harass the customer.
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