Since I was the first person to provide the list, let me respond to this broad-brush painting you're doing.
Is this all you can grasp? All of my other, much more likely reasons, are the ones you choose to ignore?
Yet you and some other people here are surprisingly quick to say that this is the EXACT reason your site is being kept out. Heck, if you're so sharp-eyed and sharper-thinking, why wouldn't everybody else be? Or, are you compassionately concerned that most webmasters get screwed but you aren't going to let that happen to you?
"Put up or shut up" is the expression here. If you guys are so sure it is happening each and every time a site doesn't get listed, report the abuse, tell your friends to report the abuse, tell your enemies to report the abuse -- or, just hush about it and hope for the day you can screw over everybody else with impunity, because that's what you say is happening and is easily provable.