tangor - 4:31 am on Jun 3, 2010 (gmt 0)
Sorry @tangor I didn't think I was quoting you out of context - but then I didn't realize that your forum only had 94 members. All active? Have read a fair bit of ERB myself.
No worries! Most are still active... but that's not the point. Each forum (and some I manage run to 8k+ members) is different. And one of those is even more draconian than what's under discussion here.
Finding the balance between content and touchie feelie is what makes any forum FOR THEIR INTENDED MEMBERS work. My little hobby site as revealed here, is nothing like my biz sites, but even that little bitty works at doing things webmaster right, even if it is framed. :)