mack - 5:45 pm on Sep 3, 2013 (gmt 0)
Create something scrape-worthy with your links embeded.
If a site has suitably high traffic create a "link to us" page.
When you add an outbound link send the site owner an email. Try not to make it look like a 90's link request.
I now ask for a reference to my site as opposed to a link.