defanjos - 6:55 pm on Jan 24, 2011 (gmt 0)
But the big question is should I allow them to link to me or not? And should I link to them or not?
I would remove all outbound links immediately and cancel the service.
Some inbounds will stay in place for now, but eventually they will take them down.
If you want to have outbound links (i.e. for reciprocal exchanges) on your site make sure they are on theme and make sense to your visitors. And don't go crazy with the number of links - keep it reasonable.