Why not engage your reciprocal linkers by interacting into dynamic social networks in conjunction with the links script management. Don't focus just on the links - try the social aspect as well to engage natural linking within it.
e.g. Forget about reciprocal links , think reciprocal comments with links in them - naturally.
I'm just trying to push aside the A to B , B to A mentality that led to the link farm like pages which Google doesn't like from years ago with a quality mentality approach.